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wish someone had told me that suddenly gaining a butt + hips + boobs at 26 after spending your whole life without them also meant gaining so much weight bc now you can’t help but cringe whenever you look in a mirror and see the fat pig you’ve become
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Anonymous 22w

Things will change with time, you just have to learn to love yourself and rock the look! Plus if you do your confidence will shine and that’s what people will recognize most

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Anonymous 22w

i don’t think calling yourself or any woman a “fat pig” is a very kind or fair way to view people’s bodies as they grow and change. you can definitely do things to lose weight like working out but you should also maybe examine why you’re so quick to be so cruel to yourself about your weight

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22w

Also don’t be scared about how clothes sizes change, that was the hardest thing to get through for me but I grew to accept that it happens and moved forward

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

see that’s the thing tho, when it’s other girls i’m like “OMG they’re so curvy and beautiful step on me!!!!” but when its me im just like dang god really shoved me outta downstairs and called it a day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

give yourself the same grace you give other people. it’s a lot easier to explain to yourself why your initial reaction is wrong and unhelpful if you already treat other people better than you treat yourself

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