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Guys I kinda sorta need help. Me and my bf both love each other. We both know that. But he hasn’t been giving me much affection lately and kind of makes me feel like a burden (he doesn’t know that). Granted we are both super busy this semester tho
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Anonymous 4d

I would definitely talk to him instead of letting any resentment build. If he's right for you, then he'll understand and put some more effort in the relationship! I hope you two work it out ❤️

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Anonymous 4d

Update- I’m trying to talk to him about it and he keeps sayings he’s busy. And trying to one up me saying he’s busier than I am. And I keep telling him that’s not what I’m talking about. That I’m just trying to tell him how I feel. Now he left me on opened

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Anonymous 4d

Agreed def try to talk and figure out what would help u feel more appreciated

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Anonymous 4d

Second update- he stopped answering last night (left me on opened), went to sleep, then texted me hi this morning like I never said anything

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I understand that he may be busy but so are you. He needs to devote some time to addressing issues or it will just get worse. I hope it all works out for you <3

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

That would piss me off so bad 💀 it might be better to have this as an in-person conversation if he's just gonna ignore it over text. He's being complacent, he shouldn't make you feel bad for expressing your needs

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