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Girl Talk 20w
is this a safe space to complain about being fat and feeling ugly bc of it
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Anonymous 20w

I’ll be honest: no it’s not a safe space because you need therapy, not someone to coddle you and try and validate these feelings. You have body dysmorphia, you don’t need to be taking a GLP1

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Anonymous 20w

it literally makes me so angry and deeply sad

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Anonymous 20w

then starving doesn’t even work bc i KNOW ill just binge

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Anonymous 20w

This community is pro-fat and anti-dating-men so it's probably not a safe space for encouragement

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Anonymous 20w

i don’t even want to date anymore because of my body

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Anonymous 20w

started glp1 and i’ve been going to the gym at least 3x a week but my problem is once i have my mind set on a particular food i need to have it

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Anonymous 20w

i feel like my stomach is a bottomless pit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

why do you think i have body dysmorphia im factually just fat and have negative experiences bc of it

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Anonymous 20w

i know but im ugly bc im fat my body distributes my weight weirdly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

I highly implore you to talk to a psychologist. You’re taking things to the extreme. You’re conflating things that don’t make sense, like being fat and ugly aren’t remotely the same thing. This seems mentally taxing on you, and it’s not supposed to be.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

Because this kind of thing shouldn’t be encouraged? 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

well i am ugly bc of the excessive fat on my body there are many fat girls who have beautiful bodies but im not one of them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

I can guarantee you’re not ugly. Please seek help

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

well yes being fat is mentally taxing on me i’m constantly reminded how disgusting it is to be fat, especially if your body doesn’t hold it well by social media, family, dating apps, dating irl, existing irl like yea that’s why im trying to get better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

just like how some ppl look better with a bit of meat on their bones, it’s the same vice versa. not saying OP is, but it is very possible to be ugly because someone’s fat

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Anonymous 20w

i feel like ur the one taking it to the extreme, being able to recognize extra fat weighs someone’s looks down doesn’t mean they’re gonna develop an ED once they hit a healthy weight

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