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Girl Talk 6d
I just turned 20. Is there any advice whether it’s health wise, academically, or on life in general yoy could give me? I’m the oldest sibling so I don’t have a big sister. I am the big sister😅
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Anonymous 6d

Eat your fruits and vegetables and always use a condom

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Anonymous 5d

Enjoy life and don’t worry about what others think. Life’s too short to be concerned with others/compare yourself to others. You are on the path in life that’s your own so no one will have the exact experience that you’re having right now

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Anonymous 6d

Build up credit now

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Anonymous 5d

Set realistic goals 1-5 years out and work towards them. Contribute to a 401k as soon as it’s offered and take advantage of any matching. Don’t waste time on people who don’t value you for you. Build relationships with professors. Pick a good birth control and use condoms with it. Get your degree and always keep your own income.

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Anonymous 5d

Save money

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Anonymous 5d

your 20s might feel absolutely insane. major life changes might happen, you’re likely to learn a lot of Lessons, and they’ll end with your saturn return making you feel like you’re shedding your skin. you WILL be okay on the other side of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Thank you. I’ve def been working on eating my fruits & veggies. My skin has been glowing!😝

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

I’ve only ever used a debit card. The same one I’ve had since I was like 14 so I’ll definitely do this!!😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

I really needed to hear this. I’m in my sophomore year of college & have been comparing myself to others all my life. Especially now that I’m in college🥲 but I’m slowly starting to realize that everyone is in fact on their own path & things come when they’re meant to 😄

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

Thank you, I’ll remember all of these!! Especially setting realistic goals. One of my birthday gifts was actually a planner because my family knows how bad I am with remembering & goal setting. I’m definitely gonna use it lol😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5d

I definitely will, thank you!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5d

I’m so scared for the lessons to come lol but am excited to see what I learn & the person I may grow into

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