
If that’s what you want to do, you should tell her that’s how you wanna spend your day. If you feel like you want to do something with friends but know you can’t spend the night out, maybe you could tentatively schedule breakfast or lunch with your friends so you have a moment with your friends to celebrate you
I get really sad on my birthdays too, so sometimes it cheers me up to get my freebies from baskin Robbin’s and other chain stores! It’s kind of a low pressure gift that I get to choose for myself, and it kind of alleviates some of the pressure of trying to make my birthday special