
okay i hate how he talks like romance = sex and that he puts cuddling in the same category as hooking up. “i don’t see the point in coming over if we’re not gonna hook up” what abt spending time together???? also i can’t explain this for sure but it’s like he’s trying to use time w him as a like bargaining chip in order to get her to sleep w him and couching it in therapy speak
I was really shocked and he is really gross but honestly I would rather have a guy be that up front with me than pretend like he likes me/cares but only wants to hook up. Idk I feel like in this world I have to say to guys, “Im looking forward to getting to know you but this isn’t a hookup and I only do that when I’m serious.” Thats just my preference. I have had men beg me, SA me, and even accuse me of thinking they are ugly because I won’t hook up.
so much entitlement after one date is crazy to me. “oh i get it first date, let’s get to know each other” maybe that’s the case for multiple dates ??? she said she wasn’t sure abt sleeping w him, after that he should have dropped it. wouldn’t be surprised if in the case that he succeeded in guilting her into sleeping w him, he then broke it off bc of “incompatibility”