just wait until you meet someone you actually like & trust, being a virgin in college isn’t a big deal its more common than you’d think

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lost it this weekend guys, it was with the guy ive been hu with since the beginning of summer and know and trust

5

I lost mine to a hookup BUT I wanted to lose it that way, I wasn’t pressured by him and he was fine w waiting for me to be ready (so I guess it was a fwb where the benefit was cuddling and kissing). If you want to wait until you’re in a relationship, wait. If you don’t want to wait, find someone you’re comfortable and ready w. Any good person isn’t going to make you feel bad or guilty for just saying “actually, no. I change my mind. I’m not ready yet” if they do they’re not a good person

4

“Lose it” on your own terms, not because you feel like you’re supposed to. Whoever it’s with make sure that you trust and feel safe with them (even if it’s not going to lead to a relationship)

4

i lost mine to a casual hookup. i didnt tell him i was a virgin. it was nothing special but i was glad to get it done. virginity is literally made up and it can be as special as you want it to be. chances are you won't stay with the first person you have anyway so just stay safe and have fun

3

i lost it to someone i had know for a bit to. i regret my decision a lot but i mean in ur case u dont want a bf, i would say just be careful and choose a guy you trust maybe.. thats what i did but i barely knew the guy lmao

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im a senior in college and still a virgin mostly due to not being ready the last time i was in a relationship and then getting ridiculously busy for the past couple years, its not a big deal. have sex if u want to, dont if u dont. big agree with everything #3 said

1

What the fuck do you think you should do?

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