
also i know it’s not all men, i didn’t mean it like that. my dad is my favorite example of the exception. he’s known all of our birthdays like the back of his hand since the day we were born, and can tell me every birthday of every family member/pet that he knew after age 7. he knows his grandparents birthdays even though they died when he was young. all i know is his dad = jan 5th (or close), his mom = may or smth, my mom’s mom = summer i think, my mom’s dad = not a damn clue.