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Girl Talk 20h
i'm gonna need yall to stop suffering in ur situationships if u actually have feelings for the other person. ASK THEM what ur doing here and move on if they don't want anything with u. ur trapped in a cage that has an open door
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Anonymous 20h

simple solutions

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Anonymous 18h

I asked and just got my heart broke so… guess I have to magically move on now

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Anonymous 20h

real

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Anonymous 15h

Who said I was suffering

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Anonymous 11h

nah fr- me n my FWB talked bout it n settled on staying FWB 🤷🏽‍♀️ all the perks without the title

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Anonymous 19h

but being delulu is part of the fun, I want to yearn and fantasize about being together when we fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

like

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

you do realize.... if you get back out there, this is something you can HAVE without fantasizing..... right?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

you should just break it off then (?)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

better that than staying in a relationship you dont want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

I want the relationship. He doesn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

well yes i'm saying better than staying in a relationship that isn't reciprocal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

ew but i don’t want a relationship, i just want it in my head where it’s fun and not disappointing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

also a relationship means i cant fuck other guys. i’ll take enjoying a little romance with my hookups instead, thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

lmaoo ya know what girl, if ur where u wanna be, then power to ya

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

u just saved urself from wasting SOOOOO MUCH more time on a man who won't choose u. i applaud u and knw ull heal from this to find better

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Thank you queen. I hope so… just doesn’t feel like it rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

completely valid and healthy to feel that way. just remember, going back to him is denying urself respect. u knw u want more and he doesn't, TRUST that leaving this situation for good will open u up to finding better. going back is just wasting time and getting even more attached to be hurt over and over

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

I’m screenshotting that and making it my daily affirmation

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

hell yea brother😤

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

Relationships are so draining for girls especially when you’re at that age where non of the men your age will treat you the way you deserve. let lose while you focus on growing yourself😁 we all get lonely sometimes, its okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

then this post isn't about u😭 i said if u have feelings for ur situationship

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