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a guy told me to "shut up and suck it" last night when did aggression during intimacy become so normalized?
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Anonymous 23h

P0rn has rotted the brains of men

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Anonymous 22h

imo that’s so weird if yall haven’t talked abt what you like in sex.

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Anonymous 20h

porn has conditioned everyone to think aggression and rough sex is the only thing that we want when it’s just 🚩 all around

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Anonymous 20h

this is literally the consequences of porn in our society

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Anonymous 18h

That’s genuinely when I leave, nope we’re done here I am a human being and unless I’ve explicitly said I want to be treated like I’m not then you won’t talk to me aggressively

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Anonymous 18h

porn. And honestly, so many other aspects of the media. I’m a big reader, and I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve seen books romanticizing aggression and extreme control and even sexual abuse/borderline rape. And there’s actually people who seem to think it’s hot. It’s mind blowing.

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Anonymous 17h

That’s not okay. Aggression and violence during sex (obviously different if consensual), is a big warning sign in potential domestic violence situations. I’m so sorry he said that to you. That’s so messed up😭❤️

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Anonymous 18h

A lot of them start watching porn in elementary they’ve been raised and groomed into it .. it’s as second nature as anything else we pick up in childhood. scary stuff

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Anonymous 17h

why are you hooking up with random men?

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Anonymous 21h

They prob haven’t talked abt it bc they were just hooking up.

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Anonymous 23h

not an excuse

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

what'd the deleted guy say

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

so why would he assume it was ok to say?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17h

Definitely not an excuse…

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 17h

why is that any of your business?

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 17h

bold of you to assume he was random

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

Literally. Making random assumptions without any evidence whatsoever 💀

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