Anonymous #1 1d

oh this struck a chord huh

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Anonymous OP 1d

yeah because it’s a generalized assumption that is not true ? im passionate about sex positivity and this ain’t it ! maybe some women are doing this but let’s not make generalizations

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Anonymous #1 1d

the english language is imperfect. this post isnt generalizing anything. it doesnt say ALL women or MOST women do this. its observing a phenomenon

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Anonymous #1 1d

It actually is anti feminist to treat yourself as an object of sex and desire btw

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Anonymous OP 1d

yeah the phrasing could be better

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Anonymous #2 1d

who said i was treating myself like an object ? being sexualized is not the same as being objectified. that line of thinking is consistent with a sex negative rhetoric

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Anonymous #2 1d

for sure, but i do think there are exceptions. some ppl are genuinely wired to enjoy that, but they should do the necessary unpacking to see what in them led to that desire. the cause isnt always pure/not male-centered

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Anonymous #1 1d

being an object of sex and desire isnt the same as being objectified

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Anonymous OP 1d

okay then whats wrong with wanting to be sexually desired ?

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Anonymous #1 1d

thats impossible w social media. if this person had been exact w their language and specified smth like “some women blah blah blah but some women do it in a genuine way but really it comes down to the actions and motivations and the person they do it with blah blah blah” this post wouldve gone nowhere

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Anonymous #1 1d

theres nothing wrong with it. this post is saying some women mistake being sexually desired for being sexually fulfilled

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