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I’ve been overweight most of my life. I’ve tried everything. I grew up with doctor’s simply undermining me, which i understand. TBH I’m used to it. My cousin recently got cancer and now my mom is worried abt my health and thinking I have cancer (1)
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Anonymous 4w

She’s mad that I don’t make doctors appointments. Trust me, it’s not the fact that I don’t wanna be skinny, I do so much, it’s just that I’m tired of hearing that I am the problem because I’ve starved myself, done diets, exercised and nada. I don’t need to hear anything from people who just don’t understand, it’s not me being ignorant it’s just me being tired

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Anonymous 4w

Oh dang yeah I was just wondering because I have Pcos and it sounded like that

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Anonymous 4w

Also my bloodwork was fine too it was when they did the ultrasound on me they found mine

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Anonymous 4w

But if everything is clean then there shouldn’t be anything for your mom to worry about

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Anonymous 4w

I get it girl

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Anonymous 4w

I don’t understand why people go through all the work to become doctors just to undermine their patients. Show some care One of my friends JUST found out about multiple diseases she has because she finally found a doctor that cared after years of doctors ignoring and saying everything is fine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

U don’t have to tell me but do u by chance have pcos

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

See I wish it was that simple, not like I want to be sick or ill, I simply want to know what’s wrong without a billion doctor visits. I went to a gyno and got all my bloodwork done and it was all good for pcos related things so I canceled my second gyno appointment explaining the bloodwork cuz everything came out fine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Like okay my family has every genetics illness cuz there is so much incest in my fam. We got a lot of cancer, diabetes, and more. I’m so healthy I’m not even pre diabetic

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I got an ultrasound and that was clear, they just diagnosed it as dysmenorrhea

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Dang then idk girl I’m sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

That’s what I thought, like I’m not gonna go to appointments with doctors being condescending and not taking me seriously. There may be something but until I see more prominent signs I can’t just keep on going to doctors. It’s how it is being overweight

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Have u maybe got ur thyroid hormones checked

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Yeah, they also came out clear

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Have u tried going to a pa. A lot of times they are nicer so maybe you will have a better experience with them

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