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Girl Talk 22h

I just wanna be in a relationship and be loved and do all the cutesy relationship things without all the sexual shit, is that too much to ask for

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Anonymous 22h

are you asexual? because you can seek out an asexual relationship that is still romantic

Anonymous 18h

Girl just be strict af that that’s a boundary. I bring it up asap and let whoever I’m talking to I’m non negotiable on sex and won’t want it until I’m ready if I ever am. I always present sex as a maybe in the future, never a definite. My boyfriend was entirely okay with this and is a great man.

Anonymous

#1 22h

it’s not even that, I just don’t wanna have sex with someone unless it’s like serious

Anonymous

OP 21h

if it’s the right person, they won’t push you until they’re ready :) my boyfriend didn’t even bring it up, we were dating for a few months and i was like “heyyyy…..” and it’s been great since then

Anonymous

#1 21h

sorry? i meant to say they won’t push you about things and wait until you’re ready wtf

Anonymous

#1 21h

Awe I’m so happy for you and yeah I guess you’re right I just want the right person to find me alr

Anonymous

#2 16h

You’re one of the lucky ones tbh.

Anonymous

#3 16h

I really am thh. And yeah no I had a guy before me that didn’t accept this and kept pushing. I was young and very lucky my parents intervened. My point is men who respect you are out there even if they’re hard to find, so it’s good to be strict on your boundaries and very upfront about them. Of course there’s always wolves and sheep’s clothing, but it can help filter out some guys who only want sex.