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So I was obese as a child. This February I was class 1 obese for my height. Now I’m in the overweight category and I still have abt 10 lbs to lose before I’m in the normal category. My mom is begging me to stop losing weight. How do I fix this
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Anonymous 7w

My mom does the same thing! I hate it. She’ll say stuff like “you wanna be white girl skinny and that ain’t cute” (I’m black yall so im sorry) but it bothers tf outta me. I just wanna be healthy and get it off before it’s too late.

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Anonymous 7w

crabs in a bucket

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Anonymous 7w

If you don’t mind me asking are you losing weight because you want to or because you feel like you have to/outside pressure? Also are you doing it in a healthy way?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

I’m losing weight because I want to, sure a lil pressure but that’s 20%. I want to be in the normal weight category but once that’s achieved maybe 15-20 lbs lower so I can keep control and not rebound. And I’m doing it so healthily. I never go below 1200 cals and I have refeeds and cheat meals all the time. I’m also 4 11 so while I do a lot of cardio, I can almost never do too much

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