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a part of me loves when women get online talking about the little ways that they like to be dirty or musty in peace😭 as bad as it seems, it’s lowkey humanizing women
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Anonymous 8w

Thank you. So tired of women expected to be clean shaven, radiating light, smelling like flowers, etc.

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Anonymous 8w

Is this a safe place to say that I find brushing my teeth so draining and there is a high probability that unless I’m going somewhere with other people I’m not doing it?

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Anonymous 8w

YES. i pick my nose and i wear the same pajamas for multiple nights in a row and i almost never wash my bras. this is girlhood

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Anonymous 8w

Omg yes, when we finally get to take the mask off and stop performing. Lowkey I can go months in the fall/winter without shaving my legs

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Anonymous 8w

Also slickbacks are my best friend when washing my hair is too much to deal with. (I’m also mentally ill so that is probably a large part of this 😭)

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Anonymous 8w

I get you queen.

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Anonymous 8w

No you’re so real for that like we alllll do it and it’s about time we’re open about it

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Anonymous 8w

the hair I grow on my stomach that I’m too lazy to shave or going a week without washing my hair and using dry shampoo bc it’s my personal hero

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Anonymous 8w

it’s like the second book of the School for Good and Evil ifykyk

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Anonymous 8w

my FAVORITE topic is sex (in a girl talk way) and also how sometimes I just need to be messy and not shower every day and be perfect and I need to be a MESS sometimes. Can’t be a princess everyday even though I wish I was

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Anonymous 8w

i haven't washed my sheets in over a month. i've been too busy. i haven't showered in almost a week

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Anonymous 8w

bro what?? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

ofc it’s a safe place but babe if you’re going through something mentally (because usually that can be a sign of bad mental health) i hope you get better and understand how worth it you are to have clean teeth even if you’re not going out

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

i lowkey just be brushing mine in the morning

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 8w

My mom calls me gross for it but like miss girl it grows there naturally???

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 8w

Omg yesss i feel so bad about the hair on my stomach but honestly this just made me feel better

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 8w

I promise there’s no shame in it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 8w

nah, i’m sorry but y’all are crazy. i get not wanting to conform to the beauty standard bc it’s unrealistic, but bragging about being dirty is where you lose the plot… that is not something that should be normalized, in both men and women. pls take a shower, brush your teeth, and change your sheets… some of y’all try to be so woke that you actually end up being dumb šŸ˜­šŸ¤¦šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø personal hygiene vs maintaining societal beauty standards are two very different things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

and ik y’all about to downvote me for whatever reason, but someone needs to tell y’all bc this is insane.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

If you know, you know. I’m pretty sure every person on earth has gone through at least one point in their life where they didn’t wash their sheets for a while or went a couple of days without showering. Don’t tell me you’ve brushed your teeth twice a day every day your whole life.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

no one is expecting perfection, but bragging about being dirty is not the flex you think it is 😭 like no one can convince me that this needs to be normalized. go take a shower, pls.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

i did take a shower and i did change my sheets. i'm not being woke, im sharing my lived experience on a post that is asking you to share them. like i said, ive been too busy. work has been draining me, im moving on top of that, and im currently fighting the US government for financial support. for almost two months ive been waking up, going to work, making call after call, going to government buildings, then coming home and going to bed. i just haven't had the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 8w

i’m proud of you diva

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 7w

ty queen

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