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Tell them when you’re not interested anymore they said It’s the right thing to do they said 😭
84 upvotes, 28 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "Tell them when you’re not interested anymore they said It’s the right thing to do they said 😭"
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Anonymous 4d

ik you probably know this but you dodged a fucking bullet omg. if he thinks you being open and honest and MATURE is pretentious i do not want to see what he thinks ‘normal’ communication is

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Anonymous 4d

u dodged a bullet fr

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Anonymous 4d

Fuck conservative bigots

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Anonymous 4d

I wish my friend would do this, like girl he nasty

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Anonymous 3d

what did he want you to say? like genuinely? if you didn’t explain, he’d ask. if you ghosted, that’s just gross behavior. what did he expect???

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Anonymous 4d

this makes me so glad to be liberal

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Anonymous 3d

“Leftist” is such a condescending term

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Anonymous 4d

Sometimes you guys need to learn to take a breath, block, and move on with life

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Anonymous 1d

#3 blocked me 😂 fragile ass ego

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Anonymous 3d

Yeah, you dodged a damn mudslide. He def gets physically abusive, I just know.

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Anonymous 4d

This shits weird

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Anonymous 4d

Tbh you could have just ended it at you didn’t feel up to a second date cause you don’t share the same values and aren’t compatible. Going into it in detail kinda does make you come off a bit pretentious, in my opinion. He really didn’t need to know all that.

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Anonymous 4d

They both dodged a bullet. U could’ve just said we’re not compatible, and he didn’t have to say allat

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4d

🍅🍅🍅

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d

What does ts mean?

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Anonymous 4d

🍅🍅🍅🍅

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

Everytime someone tries to do that it turns into the conversation of “tell me why” “no woman wants me”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Like what 9 said, the issue is that people WANT transparency and when it isn’t given to them, they question you regardless. Also, OP wasn’t rude at all— they were being honest and open about what the issues they had were. That’s not pretentiousness, that’s just talking

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

She dodged a thermonuclear bomb

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 3d

I don’t think people need to explain all that to get their point across. If someone wants further explanation, they can ask. Otherwise, it’s just unnecessary added information. You have different values. There’s no need to explain further how you are different if it’s just not working, unless they ask.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Take ur head out of ur 🍑

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3d

that’s literally exactly what she did. she said we’re not compatible and here’s why.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 3d

My head isn’t in my ass. I’m just expressing my opinion and you guys are the ones who don’t like it and are excessively downvoting cause you’re mad

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

I think a lot of the reason why OP expressed all of this clearly was because typically if you don’t, you tend to get a negative reaction regardless. People will villify someone no matter what— I don’t think it’s pretentious to say something that’s true. If we didn’t have to context of OPs message and just saw it on insta, we probably would have all sided with OP

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 3d

That makes sense but that’s not always true. You can just say you’re not compatible and share different values and move on. If you get a negative response *still* then that’s not on OP, that’s on the immaturity of the other person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

It may not always be true, but I think women are often put in a lose-lose situation where if they don’t give details they’re harassed for it but if they give “too much” they’re told they’re annoying/overbearing/pretentious, which is something a lot of people aren’t aware of, just wanted to bring attention to that

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3d

I agree and I see where you’re coming from. I was seeing it in a general way. I’d say the same thing if it was a man that said it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

Yeah, being reich-wing is definitely its own special class of mental illness or something else. It needs to be studied.

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