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Tell them when you’re not interested anymore they said It’s the right thing to do they said 😭

84 upvotes, 21 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "Tell them when you’re not interested anymore they said

It’s the right thing to do they said 😭"

Anonymous 13w

u dodged a bullet fr

Anonymous 13w

Fuck conservative bigots

Anonymous 13w

I wish my friend would do this, like girl he nasty

Anonymous 13w

what did he want you to say? like genuinely? if you didn’t explain, he’d ask. if you ghosted, that’s just gross behavior. what did he expect???

Anonymous 13w

this makes me so glad to be liberal

Anonymous 13w

Sometimes you guys need to learn to take a breath, block, and move on with life

Anonymous 13w

#3 blocked me 😂 fragile ass ego

Anonymous 13w

Yeah, you dodged a damn mudslide. He def gets physically abusive, I just know.

Anonymous 13w

This shits weird

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Anonymous 13w

Tbh you could have just ended it at you didn’t feel up to a second date cause you don’t share the same values and aren’t compatible. Going into it in detail kinda does make you come off a bit pretentious, in my opinion. He really didn’t need to know all that.

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Anonymous 13w

🍅🍅🍅🍅

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Anonymous

#3 13w

Everytime someone tries to do that it turns into the conversation of “tell me why” “no woman wants me”

Anonymous

#3 13w

Like what 9 said, the issue is that people WANT transparency and when it isn’t given to them, they question you regardless. Also, OP wasn’t rude at all— they were being honest and open about what the issues they had were. That’s not pretentiousness, that’s just talking

Anonymous

#12 13w

I don’t think people need to explain all that to get their point across. If someone wants further explanation, they can ask. Otherwise, it’s just unnecessary added information. You have different values. There’s no need to explain further how you are different if it’s just not working, unless they ask.

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Anonymous

#3 13w

Take ur head out of ur 🍑

Anonymous

#14 13w

My head isn’t in my ass. I’m just expressing my opinion and you guys are the ones who don’t like it and are excessively downvoting cause you’re mad

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Anonymous

#3 13w

I think a lot of the reason why OP expressed all of this clearly was because typically if you don’t, you tend to get a negative reaction regardless. People will villify someone no matter what— I don’t think it’s pretentious to say something that’s true. If we didn’t have to context of OPs message and just saw it on insta, we probably would have all sided with OP

Anonymous

#12 13w

That makes sense but that’s not always true. You can just say you’re not compatible and share different values and move on. If you get a negative response *still* then that’s not on OP, that’s on the immaturity of the other person.

Anonymous

#3 13w

It may not always be true, but I think women are often put in a lose-lose situation where if they don’t give details they’re harassed for it but if they give “too much” they’re told they’re annoying/overbearing/pretentious, which is something a lot of people aren’t aware of, just wanted to bring attention to that

Anonymous

#9 13w

I agree and I see where you’re coming from. I was seeing it in a general way. I’d say the same thing if it was a man that said it.

Anonymous

#4 13w

Yeah, being reich-wing is definitely its own special class of mental illness or something else. It needs to be studied.