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Girl Talk 10w
my friend complains about her bf 24/7 and when I suggest she break up with him she gets super defensive. girl leave him or leave me out of it I cannot keep up with this. it’s been years, I’m over it
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Anonymous 10w

stopped being friends w someone for this exact reason, girl get outta there cause she just likes complaining abt him to you

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Anonymous 10w

Tell her that, if it’s not something you want to be involved in or told about set that boundary with her so she’s aware of how you feel about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

me too. since cutting her off, i feel so unburdened by her bullshittery. tried to come back crying to me like she learned something but i knew better and ignored it. i found it she had had ANOTHER situationship go sideways within the first four months of me not speaking to her. i just laughed

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

i dunno, to expect a different answer after doing the same thing over and over again is just insane. they have to see what an emotional burden they’re being because at that point if you’re never agreeing with them and they’re never listening to your advice. they’re just looking to see if this time you’ll validate them

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