Girl Talk on Sidechat | I’m 19 and still can’t figure out masturbation. Touching my 🐱is as non-erogenous as touching an elbow, even when I’m wet. I’ve never come bc I’ve never felt pleasure. Idek how Could smt be wrong w my body & is it worth consulting a Dr.? I have orgasm FOMO

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I’m 19 and still can’t figure out masturbation. Touching my 🐱is as non-erogenous as touching an elbow, even when I’m wet. I’ve never come bc I’ve never felt pleasure. Idek how Could smt be wrong w my body & is it worth consulting a Dr.? I have orgasm FOMO

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Anonymous 1d

There’s nothing wrong with you, you’re okay. Some people don’t enjoy masturbating. I can’t do anything with my fingers, it’s not worth it to me. I get bored and it feels okay but just like isn’t worth my time to me. I never orgasmed until I bought my first bullet vibrator… now I love it. Use the same exact one and it’s been 5 years. You’ll get there and there’s no rush. I understand the fomo tho

Anonymous 1d

have you tried rubbing around everywhere to find your clit? you might have a larger hood which covers your clit, so you might have to pull back the skin and get under it. try holding a mirror down there and doing some exploring and looking into anatomy

Anonymous 1d

Vibrators 🤞 I can’t get off masturbating without a vibe

Anonymous 1d

I’m the same way unforts. I never masterbate so I jumped into sex during my first relationship not knowing what made me feel good or what would make me cum. I still haven’t came once till this day since losing my virginity.

Anonymous 1d

My clit is super sensitive to the point that it just hurts to be touched like genuinely. It’s gotten easier the past few months but sometimes I wonder if I’m even able to come from it. So don’t worry I understand. Sometimes I wonder if something is wrong with me

Anonymous 1d

are you on any medication? i have anorgasmia caused by ssris, and there are lots of other medications that can cause it

Anonymous 1d

Get a toy, it will change your life!!

Anonymous 1d

I’ve never related to someone more

Anonymous 1d

I really just rub my clit but I feel like I could do more I just don’t know what it dosn’t feel like enough

Anonymous 1d

omg same

Anonymous 1d

Rubbing my clit hurts like a fucker and I feel nothing then I use my fingers

Anonymous 1d

I’ve never mastrubated and never felt the need to! I read smut but lowkey just for the love of the game nothing more. I think it’s normal honestly, but I understand feeling fomo!

Anonymous 1d

Girl get a 🌹 it’s life changing

Anonymous 1d

if you have a detachable shower head that changed my life

Anonymous 1d

How long are you rubbing it for? Whenever I masturbate, it usually takes a minute of rubbing before it starts feeling good and then it builds from there until I cum. Kinda like warming up a car. Maybe you need to do it a bit longer?

Anonymous 1d

i have to start by humping something, like a blanket or stuffed animals, then i get wet and it helps me come much faster

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Anonymous 1d

Trust me ROMP Beat Bullet — the best and it’s cheap and even if you’re wet use lube — the good clean love from target is the best and good for any sensitivity

Anonymous 1d

i always have to read/watch something smutty while im doing it

Anonymous 23h

Pharmacy student here. I’m just going to look at this from a drug/health perspective. There can be many reasons. Do you take any medications or supplements? Some medications in certain classes can cause sexual dysfunction, from decreasing blood flow, sensitivity, and/or arousal. These medications can include some antidepressants, BP meds, hormone therapy, and antipsychotics. Also, certain disease states can cause SD, such as cardiovascular diseases, diabetes, hormone imbalances, and depression.

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#5 1d

Like fingering myself doesn’t do anything lmaooo

Anonymous

#7 1d

I’ve rubbed it raw unfortunately 💔

Anonymous

#5 1d

Ooo yikes diva 😓

Anonymous

#9 1d

i’ve had experiences like this with my ssri’s too

Anonymous

#3 1d

it’s so irritating but it’s also like. would i rather cum or kill myself 😭😭

Anonymous

#9 1d

I’m also on ssri

Anonymous

#5 1d

They seem scary like what if my clit doesn’t like it

Anonymous

#13 1d

It’s like tickling yourself, you just can’t do it 😭

Anonymous

#13 1d

your clit is there for the sole purpose of giving you pleasure, you just gotta go for it and experiment !

Anonymous

#9 1d

Exactly LMFAO

Anonymous

#15 1d

OK, but where do you aim when you use that because it hurts for me

Anonymous

#7 1d

Lowkey any part. You’re not supposed to at the opening but that does feel good too. The clit is where people mostly go for tho. Wdym by hurts? Maybe the water pressure is too high?

Anonymous

#2 1d

Just really hurts i’m super sensitive

Anonymous

#7 1d

That’s valid, I’m sorry ☹️ so just not your thing, and that’s okay too. Does it hurt when you try to use your fingers? Or is super duper light touch okay?

Anonymous

#2 1d

When I use my fingers inside it doesn’t feel like anything but on my clit it hurts

Anonymous

#9 1d

I take Adderall daily as prescribed to me for ADHD. In the evenings though, when I usually have the time to myself to attempt something, it has long since worn off. Unless it’s a side effect of continuous usage over time? Bc I’ve been taking it for years. However, it’s not like I notice a dulled 🐱 sensitivity; I have the exact same unremarkable sensitivity as I would if I were touching my arm. Just, yk, wetter.

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#7 1d

Is it while you’re turned on? Like are you dry beforehand? And some people can’t take direct clit stimulation, you might have to use more of the hood or use your fingers in circles around it but not directly on it. Have you tried that? And valid fingers(my own) don’t do anything for me inside, I have a vibrator tho that I use inside and that drives me insane

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OP 1d

that’ll do it! the side effects stay in your body even after it’s worn off. if it’s a big deal to you, maybe talk to ur doctor about it and see if you can get switched to a different medication :)

Anonymous

OP 1d

yeahh it could be a lack of blood flow thing, that’s a symptom of stimulants

Anonymous 1d

Creep

Anonymous 1d

Me when I lie

Anonymous

#9 1d

That’s so real. My SSRI does the same to me.

Anonymous

#9 1d

Damn that’s fucjed up I have to pick between a working brain and a working vagina now????

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Anonymous 1d

you’re right i do. but not from you. if you didn’t know, girl talk is strictly for women. gtfo

Anonymous

#23 23h

Same I have to at least before I start to get in the mood and then it’s just background noise. I have adhd and get bored sometimes I’ll go on TikTok and just scroll watching stuff not even sexual to keep my mind from getting distracted in a different way LMAO

Anonymous

#24 23h

Other things, such as sleep deprivation, physical inactivity/sedentary lifestyle, obesity, heavy alcohol and smoking, and diet to some extent. Basically anything unhealthy really in your life, and some people are more susceptible to things like this than others, that’s just how it is.

Anonymous

#24 23h

I strongly recommend seeing your PCP, if you have one, and talk to them about this. It’s okay to be embarrassed or hesitant, just remember us healthcare professionals are trained to help in non-judgmental ways. If anything at all is bothering you, let them know. After seeing your PCP or even just your university health department, they can refer you to specialists if needed.

Anonymous

#5 16h

Don’t. They lead to cutting your hair into bangs and tripping in high heels. 👠

Anonymous

#25 16h

RIGHT?