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Men are confusing. They expect sex on the first date. They want a one night stand or a fwb. But on the flip side say they hate an easy girl. Hate a girl with a body count. Don’t respect girls or wouldn’t commit to girls with a body count.
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Anonymous 17w

unfortunately this is almost always the case and it’s hard to not find someone a guy who will commit, let’s just say that the bar is in hell

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Anonymous 17w

They want you to deny every other man EXCEPT him. He wants to feel special and be the one. He wants to be different

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Anonymous 17w

Swear .. you can’t have love and respect from them at the same time 😐 I’d rather be respected and hated tbh

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Anonymous 17w

Some men don’t want both, religious guys tend to actually value chastity

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Anonymous 17w

talking to a guy right now, thought it was chill and when i ask to hang out he literally says “oh some time next week? my roommate has not left to room at all yet” TF DOES THAT MEAN? I don’t want to go to ur fucking dorm the first time we hang out.

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Anonymous 17w

This is honestly just your experience or rather it’s the type of men you date. I mean except for the high body count thing, I wouldn’t want a guy who’s been with a lot of people since that means he’s not great at staying in a relationship, so it’s definitely fair for them to expect the same.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

Men can’t sling their dick to every girl in town but expect the girl to be committed to them only. Can’t have it both ways

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

OH I know. I’m just saying now they prob think. Which is why they always want the virgin

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17w

That’s fair, as long as you also are being chaste too

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Anonymous 17w

yeah just sucks to be single sometimes 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

I wouldn’t be with someone who has been with more than two or three in the the past, and I wouldn’t expect any less in return. And especially not anyone who’s don’t any of that “one night stand” nonsense. Those people are not relationship material.

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Anonymous 17w
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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

This a good point ngl high body count is a red flag for either gender

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