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my coworker showed up at my apartment complex unprompted, unannounced just because he "wanted to hang out". it took me saying no three times for him to leave...
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Anonymous 14h

thats not a coworker thats a stalker!! wtaf

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Anonymous 14h

Yeah that’s when I call up the manager at my job and say I don’t feel safe and I refuse to work on shifts with him anymore, even if we’re not in the same area. I’d also file a police report to make note of what happened

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

If you can afford it I’d quit too but ik at least for me it was a pain to find a job so idk how feasible it is for you but also notify your building about this guy and see if you can work on getting him trespassed

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

yeah im looking for a job right now anyways and i havent been shifting in awhile but ill probably go to my manager too just in case. im worried that the police will say they cant do anything because it hasnt been multiple instances of him bothering me. ssomeone sent me hate speech on ig and i went to the police and they straight up said nothing could be done unless its happened multiple times

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

I mean even if it’s not multiple, start a report so if it becomes something, there’s a trail. Also literally tell them if they say there’s nothing that can be done, you want to make a report. Literally just be difficult with them and say you want this written down while the details are still fresh so if this man comes back you can call back to this easily

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

just got off the phone with a dispatcher 🫡

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Oh good! What’d they say

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

im waiting for an officer to call me so i can explain the situation to them 😵‍💫

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Gotcha! In the meantime maybe write down key points of the interaction so you don’t forget anything?

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