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i need advice on how to approach a conversation with a girl who is lowkey doing some stuff that i don’t feel like are appropriate
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Anonymous 9w

What’s the situation?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

she like lowkey stalks my location and also calls herself the older sister i’ve always wanted/needed and just gives me iffy vibes… i thought we were friends but she also defends the fuck out of my parents despite knowing what i have gone through with them. she also has been spam calling me like 6 times while i am asleep, knowing i am asleep.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Oiii I’ve been in a similar ish situation. Literally very very similar I also have family issues and my ex friend didn’t give af and tried to incorporate herself into my family, she wanted to be me even after she knew the abuse. Said she was like another daughter to them and liked that they liked her. She’d also look at my loco all the time and ask what I was doing at said place. If I was with my ex she’d be in my business. First remove her from accessing your location. And set a boundary lit be

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

can we talk about this bullshit in dms cause i havr more stuff to spill

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Be as straight up with her as possible or it’s never going to change or just stop being friends. I chose the removing her from my life cause it kept getting creepier to where she was dressing like me and taking on my personality and life. She was trying to destiny swap. She still has access to my life unfortunately cause of mutual friends. Now tells everyone I was a bad friend and that she hates me lol. My advice is be careful it seems like she could be starting to destiny swap with you or she’s

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

i just want to end the friendship atp, it’s lowkey suffocating atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Got some weird obsession. Could want to be you, secretly is jealous for who knows what reason and hates you for it, or she could have a crush on you but idk :/ I’d leave the friendship though

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

she is in a relationship and it’s also that’s she’s been annoyed when i can’t talk for long or for when i have had to talk to my partner and it’s ughhhh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Oh yeah girl this is strange nuh uh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

dms please it lowkey is bad bad

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