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Girl Talk 8w
Found out it’s really common with men to be super against what they call “bruh girls” and making up assumptions about them supposedly being ran through sluts because they don’t act overly feminine, but I’m just not naturally feminine, I’m even more self-
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Anonymous 8w

-conscious because it feels like the whole world is against me for not being able to fit into a box and be a woman correctly. I’m into women too but a lot of wlw seem judgmental of bi people so it just feels very discouraging all around

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Anonymous 8w

Im sorry girl i get you im rlly butch and have been somehow since i was a child. It feels so weird to not be let into girlhood or womanhood even in queer circles. Im sorry lesbians have been homophobic to you, you wouldnt want them anyways, if theyre like that theyre most likely insufferable in other ways

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Anonymous 8w

Didn’t grow up shopping with friends, or obsessing over pop culture and fashion, or doing makeup, or dating a lot of boys, I was always hanging out with boys and girls looking at bugs outside and playing video games and sharing memes, it just sucks feeling like I’m broken because I don’t enjoy the things I feel I should

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Sorry just venting

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

It’s such a weird alienating feeling that I can only describe in metaphors. I really, really hate how gendered everything is in life and how much people are judged based on what body parts they were born with Also I know there are plenty of lesbians who aren’t biphobic, but the portion who are just get really loud about it and it hurts sometimes 💔 I just want to be seen as a person first and foremost

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Hey that’s okay! The best part is you aren’t alone. I grew up girly girl but also around so much boy influence i gradually become the girl who hated pink. Did soccer and swim, rotc and theater. Not cheer and poms or was given magazines or CDs. Never introduced to girls things and led to engage it. So I blindly made my way through it all. But there’s better ppl out there. Better ppl who won’t bring up this meaningless topic it just means to haven’t found your circle of ppl

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