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I hate how with online dating people wanna meet instantly. I wanna get to know each other first and just see if we are compatible-ish over text (can’t get the full picture w/o a date). We just matched 3 hrs ago, i don’t wanna meet up tn tf 😭.
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Anonymous 22h

i’m the exact opposite lol i hate just texting

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

you don’t get worried about safety girl…?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

i like texting but i rather 100% be in person. i unfortunately live in a city with a high sex traffic rate (i live in florida). also living here in FL idk if the guy i’m talking to is racist, conservative etc. you’re the first person I ever spoke to who wants to meet instantly. Every girl friend I’ve ever had or girl in general usually waits a bit.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

i meet in a public places during the day and i drive myself to and from the location. no personal info other than what you get off of my hinge bio is ever given. i’m not particularly concerned bc i take the steps necessary to protect myself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

i mean i’m the same way but i can never do that. i’m in the #1 county with sex trafficking in fl and florida is one of the biggest hub states for trafficking due to us being surrounded by water.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

i’ll have a convo with them when we match to see if we vibe but i’d rather not waste my time talking to someone when i could go to a coffee shop for an hour and see if we even get along in person lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

i do all you do i just can’t 😭. i have extreme social anxiety so that’s mainly why. as long as you protect yourself then that’s all that matters.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

oh yeah see that i respect!! like a coffee shop get to know each other instead of over a text. that’s definitely better i think.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

lol what did you think i meant when i said i preferred to meet in person?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

oh i thought you meant like a traditional date maybe something like going out to dinner or something idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

I wish I can do that though and go to a coffee shop. I don’t know maybe my next date I’ll do that and challenge myself to work on my anxiety

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