Girl Talk on Sidechat | If I get too stressed out I won’t have a period so I’ve not had a period in two months cause lowk my life sucks rn. However coincidentally that was the last time I saw my long distance bf and we never do anything penetrative but I have this anxiety that

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If I get too stressed out I won’t have a period so I’ve not had a period in two months cause lowk my life sucks rn. However coincidentally that was the last time I saw my long distance bf and we never do anything penetrative but I have this anxiety that—

Anonymous 1d

somehow something happened like cross contamination?? Which is stupid and I know it’s stupid. I have an anxiety disorder and as stated above I have a lot happening right now that’s stressing me out. Menstrual issues also run in my family. Genuinely I just need someone to assure me that I’m fine right now. Please.

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Anonymous 1d

If logic isn’t winning, it never hurts to take a test for peace of mind.

Anonymous 1d

Hey queen I have been in this EXACT situation thousands of times. (For context I didn’t do anything penetrative w my bf for the first year we were together and often ran into this) It’s definitely the stress you’re under that’s causing your period to be delayed and the worry about being pregnant (which you’re not, most likely) is adding to that stress as well. I’ve taken so many pregnancy tests just for peace of mind. If you think it will make you feel better, I’d get one.

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#2 1d

Every time I took one it was negative, I’d be less stressed, and I kid you not I’d get my period that same week. But, if you’re worried about inconsistent periods (like I was) I’d reccomend going to an OBGYN just to talk about what you’re feeling and experiencing. No one can give you peace of mind like an OBGYN who has seen this 1000 times. (I’m not implying anything is wrong that you’d need diagnosed for, I just think getting info from a professional who studied these things for years can be

Anonymous

#2 1d

Really helpful in quieting those worries. All of this to say: no, I don’t think you’re pregnant. Yes, I think it’s most likely stress. I’d reccomend a pregnancy test (not because I think it’ll be positive, just for certainty and peace of mind) and maybe an appointment with an OBGYN just to talk and get insight (not because anything is wrong)

Anonymous

#2 1d

I hope this was helpful, I have anxiety and OCD and I know how stressful those “what-if” loops can be.