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Girl Talk 22h
Why is my mom my biggest hater? It took me 8 months to find a job and it is literally with the same company I work with over summer. She literally called me selfish because I spent my pay check on my medical expenses and not her bills.
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Anonymous 20h

i hope you become financially stable soon to leave with your kitty cat. ur mom sounds a lot like mine, my mom only got better when she started to be medicated and only then she still does some shit that pisses me off. sending you a big hug ur not alone🩷

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Anonymous 22h

I don’t even make minimum wage, I make $300 every paycheck and I’ve been looking for a second job, she called me incompetent too bc I don’t know what being an adult. Like I’m sorry that you told me I can live at home during college, without rent, I’m not even 20 yet and she is mad at me for stupid bs

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Anonymous 15h

it is imperative that you do not listen to focus on paying your medical expenses, as you know it is very hard to progress with debt and it seems she wants to hinder your progress. it is great to help family, but you can’t help ppl unless you help yourself first a lot, good luck

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

I cook, I clean, I take care of our pets, before my brother got his license I drove him everywhere he needed to be despite the fact I also had school. Also during school my mom expected me to drop everything I had going on to help her and would get mad at me for not being able to, and when I started my job she complained too and calls me lazy when I am literally burning out.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

She also goes out of her way to body shame me and the only time she will complement me is if I have not eaten in a few days. This isn’t a new thing either she would do this all the time when I was growing up too. Like why are you telling your 8yro to not get seconds or else she’ll be fat??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

ALSO! She hates my cat with a passion. She got me the cat as a gift but she will scream at her, call her dumbass instead of her name. It just pisses me off so much oh my god

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

Thank you

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