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idk how to say this in a not awful way but i hate when i come home and say hi how are you to my roommate and she goes “oh i had an anxious day :(“ and it like brings the whole mood down
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Anonymous 1w

u dont sound very compassionate

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Anonymous 1w

girl then don’t ask 😭 you’re putting yourself in this situation too

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Anonymous 1w

like obv its not her fault she had a bad day but 1) i literally just walked in the door and 2) i know exactly why her day was bad and it is because of a situation she chose to put herself in so i kind of dont wanna hear about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

im curious what the situation is lolol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

yeah ik but i promise there’s more context its just a lot to get into. tldr she’s anxious about her tinder date and she’s very male centered and i really dont want to hear about it anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

i cant explain it but like. its not just that she’s saying her day was rough its like she’s expecting me to commiserate. like when your mom is upset and it affects the whole house.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

like i dont feel this way when any of my other friends/roommates have a rough day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

oh thats the worst kind of person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

honestly thats so valid, having a male centered roomie is not for the weak ✋😭

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Anonymous replying to -> hooters 1w

oh thank GOD people understand cuz i feel like such a bitch😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i mean that def sounds like it sucks but you’re not doing yourself any favors if you keep asking when you know the answer isn’t going to be what you want to hear

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

sure but then if i dont say how are you that’s seen as rude so i’m kinda stuck

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

ig you have to decide which one you’re more willing to put up with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i honestly ended up just ignoring my male centered roommate unless i absolutely had to tell/ ask her for something 🤷‍♀️ but that was like my very last solution, honestly the best u can do is hit them with a "damn that sucks im sorry", forget about it and just move on with ur day imo

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