start changing the topic on her you are not a dump site if she doesn’t want to do anything proactive with the complaining she can write it in a journal. it’s giving male centered. getting talked at and not to is so annoying

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I’ve learned in life that some people just love the drama and there’s nothing you can do to help them

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maybe just straight up tell her what you’ve noticed and say that there doesn’t seem to be anything positive abt the relationship. could lead to a conversation, she could also just shoot it down and end it quickly. if she does the latter, then it might be a sign to set a boundary that if she’s gonna only ever complain abt her bf that you are not comfortable with hearing it, especially if she is also not willing to take advice/change anything abt the relationship. it’s a rough situation

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