Girl Talk on Sidechat | Every time my boyfriend does something that makes me upset or sad, I start doubting the entire relationship. Am I the only one? I wish I wasn’t like this :(

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Every time my boyfriend does something that makes me upset or sad, I start doubting the entire relationship. Am I the only one? I wish I wasn’t like this :(

Anonymous 3w

ya that's normal especially depending on the severity of what he's doing. i know my friends wouldn't make me upset or sad, so why would i accept that over and over from someone who's suppose to love me?

Anonymous 3w

I think it’s normal, you should question whether you want to stay with someone who makes you feel that way. The real tell will be how he responds to your feelings; do you feel comfortable talking to him about it? Is he able to make you feel better afterwards? Is he willing to correct his behavior in the future to avoiding making you feel that way again?

Anonymous

#1 3w

Thank you 🤍 He says he doesn’t mean to do the stuff he keeps doing, but it just keeps happening over and over :( it’s just little things though, like waking me up by calling me at like 6am or promising to come over and then not :(

Anonymous

#2 3w

Thank you so much, that’s reassuring 🫶 I literally had that same exact thought last night

Anonymous

OP 3w

they’re always gonna say they didn’t mean it, they won’t do it again, etc etc

Anonymous

#3 3w

This is true in a lot of cases, definitely look for consistency with his actions above words! Ultimately you know the situation better than anyone, so trust your gut and don’t let yourself be blinded by wishful thinking Wish you the best!