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guys advice plz
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IM GONNA SCREAM why did my friend sleep over and take MY blanket and took up the whole bed Im gonna cry I do not have the emotional bandwidth for this shit rn
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Anonymous 4w

girl wake her ass up and tell her move over 😭

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Anonymous 4w

Personally when I have friends over i have them sleep on my couch and I given them plenty of pillows and blankets because inevitably one of us will hog something and it just avoids the fight/annoyance completely. The only person I can share a bed with is my bf

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Anonymous 4w

did you say any of this to her? my only advice would have been to say something in the moment or next time she stays over, offer her a different blanket and tell her to move over

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Anonymous 4w

It sounds like you were already in a bad place emotionally when this all happened which might be making you read more malice into this situation. Not saying this is your fault, but very often things like this aren’t on purpose and it’s important not to jump to conclusions before having a conversation about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

but also if she was asleep, she definitely wasn’t meaning to do all that and i wouldn’t say anything at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I did say I rlly dont like when ppl hog blankets and she had it like wrapped around her before she fell asleeo whcih I think is very considerate. dont want her sleeping over again honestly she has her own blanket she brought either her and she also took mine and took all the mattress topper on her side too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Im too polite I fear

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

The way it’s wrapped around her demonstrates she did it before she fell asleep

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

babe i fear you should’ve spoke up in the moment. if you don’t way her to sleep over again that’s fine, but maybe she just needed a straightforward “can you use my blanket and i use mine?” instead of just saying you don’t like blanket hogs. sometimes you gotta be more direct especially if you made that comment earlier in the night

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

*use your blanket and i use mine

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Yeah ty i see what u mean i made the comment a few days ago and we havent had any issues but today i was kind of curt with her (she was infodumping and it stressed me out real bad and i walked out) so i fear it’s Revenge

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Thank you youre right

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