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“If you loved your bf you’d give him head” If you loved your girlfriend, you wouldn’t want her to do something gross and degrading that she gets nothing out of besides herpes <3
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Anonymous 23h

I’ll never understand this mindset, love doesn’t = sex, so loving someone doesn’t entitle them to you. Besides, I’d rather have a guy who loves to ep emp than a guy who doesn’t want to and feels obligated to

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Anonymous 21h

I mean if it’s a monogomous relationship ( and no one is cheating) and you weren’t already infected, head doesn’t just give you the herp lol it’s also not gross or degrading it’s just sex 😭😭😭😭 who hurt yall

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Anonymous 18h

Yeah ikr that’s so annoying. I like giving head but it’s not something I owe someone just cause I love them. That’s not how ts works

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Anonymous 15h

This mindset is okay as long as she never wants to be eaten out and both party’s are good with this arrangement.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

use your brain for .5 seconds and you’ll be able to answer your own question. i hate when people say “who hurt yall” it’s so dismissive and so obvious you don’t actually care

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

Clearly it’s gross and degrading to OP, you’re allowed to have a different view on this, but I think a lot of OP’s intent here is anger with the implication any sex act is owed to prove you love someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16h

literally. it’s never owed, just optional

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

not wanting to do a sexual act is okay for any reason. there doesn’t need to be any qualifiers

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

Ew youre weird for using body parts as currency

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

It’s weird you view sex as transactional, but yes, no sex at is required at all! And it’s entirely okay to talk about sexual preferences before becoming serious with someone as that can contribute massively to comparability!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14h

Or maybe people should just let their partners do what makes them both happy? Not everything needs to be a competition, you just want to be offended

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Anonymous 13h

She views it as gross and degrading to give oral. If you think it’s gross and degrading to give oral you shouldn’t be okay with your partner eating you out

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13h

I think head is gross but my boyfriend loves it so I let him go to town even if I personally wouldn’t 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

To YOU it’s not gross and degrading. To people who don’t like it they’d probably say yes tf it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13h

Hey so sex isn’t a fucking transaction

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13h

That’s not how it fucking works. Also hey are you so fucking dense you forgot shit like OCD exists

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