Girl Talk on Sidechat | PSA: if your biggest problem in life is not having a bf, u don’t know how privileged u are. someone out there is going thru war, abused in arranged marriages, punished over clothing coverage, fighting for food and water on the table, & rights. GROW TF UP.

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PSA: if your biggest problem in life is not having a bf, u don’t know how privileged u are. someone out there is going thru war, abused in arranged marriages, punished over clothing coverage, fighting for food and water on the table, & rights. GROW TF UP.

Anonymous 5w

I don’t think comparing problems is a great way to live life. Both can be true at the same time. You can feel lonely and there can also be people going through other things too.

Anonymous 5w

id say yes BUT usually it’s not just about a bf a lot of ppl who say this straight up dont have any friendships - or at least intimate, deep and true ones. its very hard to exist alone

Anonymous 5w

No it’s not comparable. But relationship stuff still is hard, so if your friends are coming to you w this please don’t be rude to them

Anonymous

#2 5w

Yes but as someone who has gotten serious mental issues as a result of a boys actions this kind of thing did really help me ground myself and realize how ridiculous I was being.

Anonymous

#1 5w

Yeah but it’s not ridiculous for someone to want a partner and companion just because someone else was abusive to you. Someone may be content in every part of their life but still want a boyfriend because they wish to have a husband down the line.

Anonymous

#2 5w

key word in my post is “biggest”. yes ofc it’s okay to want love, but if you’re complaining about not having a bf, male attention, etc. to the point where u think your life sucks/it becomes male-centeredness, then that is absolutely nothing in comparison to the things i listed above.

Anonymous

#1 5w

that’s very nuanced and sure that can apply to some, but if not having a bf/fwb/and/or male-attention is your *biggest* problem, then that’s nothing in comparison to not being able to build friendships/relationships in general.

Anonymous

#2 5w

nah there’s this one girl on here who craves male validation so bad and genuinely hates her friends because they get attention from men and is cutting off all her friends for this reason. like that’s not healthy. i think that’s what caused op to make this post

Anonymous

#6 5w

i’m sorry and yes i agree, if it’s getting out of a relationship, that ofc is difficult and raw

Anonymous

OP 5w

oh i agree