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STOP HAVING SEX WITH MEN WHO DONT MAKE YOU CUM
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Anonymous 1w

even if you don’t care about orgasming, it’s a red flag that he only cares about his own pleasure

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Anonymous 1w

well actually the problem is i don’t think i know how..or at least it’s not happening correctly😭. i was once told ‘that’s not your job to worry about.’ but i feel like it is

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Anonymous 1w

STOP HAVING SEX WITH MEN

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Anonymous 1w

I feel like I get more from just rubbing the outside. I’ve never actually finished during penetrative sex.

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Anonymous 1w

Can’t cum during penetration can’t cum while rubbing can’t cum by fingering myself can’t cum to grinding. I’m fucked and it’s okay :,)

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Anonymous 1w

I dont know how to cum during sex tho..

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Anonymous 1w

This is why I don’t have sex with men anymore

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Anonymous 1w

Stop having sex with men

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Anonymous 1w

I love my man 🥰

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Anonymous 1w

ONE AGAIN FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK

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Anonymous 1w

I mean I think it’s still feels great either way. But I think it’s whatever you feel

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Anonymous 1w

And what if neither of us are cumming…

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Anonymous 1w

Hey. Stop it now. I’m hard to please. He does a great job

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Anonymous 1w

Why it’s fun

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Not finishing is fun?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

why am i getting downvoted my man makes me cum lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It’s never that deep most guys don’t know how to do it nd having sex gets boring after a while no one’s got time for all ts

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Yikes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Do not worry about it too much. This is all just a Reddit clone with far less usernames.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Girl it’s okay you’ve just never had good sex.. men CAN do it AND can easily learn how, they just don’t want to. You’ll understand one day 💕💕

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Speaking as a person with 9 bodies btw💕

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

bro stop downvoting her I relate one hundred percent 😭 some ppl just have low interest in sex bro not everyone has to be or wants to be a freak

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

oh damn wait I thought OG comment was the one who said I love my man nvm 💀💀idk why they said it’s fun

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

I was about to say since when is finishing considered freaky😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

If a man has time to finish he has time to make his girl finish I’m afraid

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

it's so over for society if u think it's freaky and not bare minimum for a woman to finish in bed

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

same.

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 1w

literally what i said. how tf do u even

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

Or maybe ive js been fucking the wring guys idk😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 1w

wrong*

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 1w

i can’t even cum solo

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 1w

the act of sex should include the guy getting u off separate from penetration yall😭 and i highly recommend taking time to figure out ur body solo bc it is possible

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 1w

vibrator immediately pls😭 this is making me very sad that so many women aren't taking the time to explore their bodies solo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I can cum solo js not from sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

My bf finishes before I do😬

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

10000% recommend getting a vibrator and experimenting with using it to figure out what gets u off.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Well it’s not that I haven’t tried, a lot of women also feel a sense of shame

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i have tried all of the things 19 said + vibrator , i simply cannot get there

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 1w

it genuinely just takes continuing to try and relaxed moods to figure out what does it for u, yes ofc some women can't, it took me literal yrs of trying to figure it out but it's possible for many

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yes ma’am!

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1w

yall don’t need to be fucking EACH OTHER🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

Maybe they’re both on antidepressants. Let us have some fun😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 1w

it’s not a fucking race. this thread is so unbelievably sad

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

how tf

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1w

that's fine for u, that should be the exception, not the normal😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

THISSSS because i can easily make myself cum but …..during sexxxxxx???? How

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 1w

no literally my issueeee I cannot cum with another person at all I can’t even like do ts to myself around them

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 1w

bro women have never made me cum either 💀💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 1w

then teach him what he needs to do to be able to get u to finish😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 1w

So does mine, but guess what my man doesn’t stop giving me pleasure until I finish as well

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

Need some advice: my man has mindset too however usually I get worn out before I’m even able to do so. Or I get so close but like just fall short. We don’t do REAL sex to be clear (waiting until marriage) but we do oral and stuff. Any tips? Maybe DM me if it needs a longer explanation

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 1w

add a vibrator into the bedroom experience if him eating u out and using his fingers at the same time isn't doing it for u

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