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Okay so my situationship has gotten serious.. he’s taken me to my obgyn appt, jury duty, to work, picked me up, makes us dinner/bfast, blows my back out on the regular, strokes my hair, calls me beautiful, eats it daily but hasn’t asked me to be his gf..?
#whatthehell#whatdoido
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Anonymous 10w

You can stand up at any time

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Anonymous 10w

how long have you guys been seeing each other?

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Anonymous 10w

Fwb? But also communicate to him

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Anonymous 10w

you could ask him to be ur bf

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Anonymous 10w

Well, if that’s something you want, you could ask him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

seeing eachother casually for like two years on and off but we’ve recently reconnected and it’s been (as described in post) for about 6-7 months.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Wym??? I like and enjoy what’s happening, I’m just very confused about the direction it’s going on. Do we think it’s heading towards a relationship or no? I never said he was the only man I was dating, or seeing. I just mentioned what’s happening.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

if you’ve known him for 2 years the answer is clearly no like 😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

Oop. Yes we’ve known eachother for two years but we were casual and dating other people… so there was no need for anything extra. but now that dynamic has changed so i was wondering if it seemed like his feelings have as well… because he started doing all of these things on his own.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

my pride won’t let meeeeeeee😓

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

maybe his pride won’t let him and that’s why he hasn’t asked u… one of yall has to toughen up 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

but i’m just a girl☹️ plus i’m afraid of rejection

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

then you’ll just have to deal with not being satisfied ig 🤷🏾‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i think you should tell him how you feel tbh. it might be scary but it’s ultimately better than waiting around for someone who doesn’t have intentions of being serious. which if he doesn’t then he shouldn’t have been doing those things, but maybe he also wants to but just isn’t sure if you also do yk? you can only find out by asking how he feels

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