if you aren’t fully enjoying it, bail! if you don’t want a second date, don’t feel obligated. if you REALLY don’t enjoy it, block him when you get home. a lot of women will put up with stuff we don’t have to when we’re nervous and inexperienced or don’t want to be rude, and i wish someone had told younger me that it is ok and also normal to not entertain someone you aren’t 100% feeling

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be safe!!! give your location to a friend, have a time you need to be somewhere after, drive yourself if you can, go somewhere that isn’t isolated. if it’s a good date, it’ll add a little mystery and suspense. if it’s a bad date, you have an out. have fun! also weird tip: the red flags you notice about them/things that bother you ab them immediately are usually what is the biggest issue in your later relationship. in other words, if he’s crazy, ditch now, not later

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Meet somewhere in a public and give someone like a friend your location so they know where you at.

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