Girl Talk on Sidechat | How long do you wait for someone to improve themself before you leave? I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. At first he was my safest person, now I just think he’s an asshole. Nothing evil, just constant eggshells. Idk what to do

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How long do you wait for someone to improve themself before you leave? I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. At first he was my safest person, now I just think he’s an asshole. Nothing evil, just constant eggshells. Idk what to do

Anonymous 8w

Communicate your feelings with him. Say I’m having issues with x y and z and see if he changes. If he doesn’t, dump his ass. I’m talking changes in the next few days. I want immediate change, it doesn’t have to be perfect but he needs to be conscious of his actions regarding the issues.

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Anonymous 8w

No deadass ladies are we all in the same boat rn😃 my bf knows it tho… I told him I thought abt breaking up w him a lot, then things got better, it’s lowk just when he drinks I cannot STAND him

Anonymous 8w

Wait I’m in the same boat

Anonymous 8w

u don’t have to stay with him. if he’s an asshole, ur allowed to say fuck this and choose what’s right for u

Anonymous

#3 8w

Remember it is not your job to fix him. If he cared enough he would put in the work

Anonymous

#4 5w

Ngl just saw this… leave. I know I said a bunch abt my current relationship 3 weeks ago but nothing has ever been worse than the time I was with my alcoholic ex. When they “change” or show some other side when they’re drunk, run. That’s still them, just less inhibited (and trust me, for a while I wasn’t sure)