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I’m 22 I’m completely lost and depressed I have sex with guys just to feel something but I never feel enough all I ever feel is used and a toy sex. Never had a father figure so I guess I’m the type of woman boys avoid
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Anonymous 1d

hey girly, i used to be the same way! youre not alone in feeling this way. i had make a 2026 goal for myself to not have sex without having genuine feelings for a guy and i cut off every guy who tried to w/o getting to know me. its so hard but ive been trying my best! i hope you find something that helps you. stay busy, find hobbies etc -23 year old girl

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Anonymous 1d

Eat the men before they eat you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

In a real girl talk kinda way, I used to be like that and I put hard boundaries down with myself. I wouldn’t sleep with anyone unless I thought they were a relationship in the works. And I mean several dates and a discussion of what we’re looking for

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Thank you for this 🩷 I feel like shit honestly why is this happening to me when I was a lover girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

i was too! i used to pride myself during my teen years that i didnt like hookup culture and then i hooked up for the first time and just continued it. at first it was empowerment (and it can be for others!) but i started just going crazy and felt like shit about it when i couldnt remember names and had to admit it to my friends. i had sexual trauma prior to this happening and i really do think that played a role for me. sometimes it just happens though, and its okay. just start little by little!

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