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I love my boyfriend so much but I don’t know if I can do this anymore. We have been together for almost four years we got together in sophomore year of highschool. I would love to marry him but I feel he’s immature and he gives me red flags now. Ideka
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Anonymous 1d

think on it, sleep on it, reflect, make your decision. add a conversation in there if needed. but it sounds like you already have your mind made up. i don’t want you to regret anything but although we’re strangers i support your decision hun 💕

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

There’s been many conversations and almost break ups (mostly from him) yet we keep getting back together. After a while I stopped trying to save the relationship whenever he decided to break up with me. I literally broke all my relationships rules. Now he says to be “I can’t believe you’d just let me break up with you” like what am I supposed to do I’m sick of fighting for a relationship that keeps ending. But again I love him I can’t seem to get over him and ik im prob gonna keep taking him bk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

oh baby you can’t keep continuing this cycle especially if it’s hurting you. would you be okay with ending this and going no contact for a while to get over him?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

some things i ask myself are: am i happy? what would 24 year old me say about this? can things get better? would i support a friend constantly going back to this? would i let my (future) daughter do this?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Idek. If I went no contact it’ll be way better I already know it but I can’t get myself to block him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

this sounds like u guys def need a break and to figure out life on your own for a bit, you could come back together for sure but have a conversation and give yourself the space

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