Anonymous #2 1d

i will NEVER hit them with the “omg nooo ur so skinny” like that’s giving them exactly what they want. i don’t care. calling yourself fat around someone obviously bigger than you is fucked up. ed issues whatever you know exactly what you are doing and what they will probably say. you want them to deny it. and i just refuse to play into that! hope this helps!

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Anonymous OP 1d

… you really need to have some kind of basis for the psychology of eating disorders and body dysmorphia because “you know what you’re doing” is the opposite of what’s going on lol. they, in their head, KNOW they are gross and ugly and disgusting and need to have unhealthy eating habits to reach their goal weight. it’s disordered thinking, that’s why it’s a psychological disorder. you don’t have to say that but you can ask “why do you think that?” “where do you see it?” “who told you that?” etc.

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Anonymous #2 1d

i can’t see it as anything other than fishing for compliments i’m sorry. asking where they see it or something is just gonna lead to them talking about how fat they are and still expect denial. like ive tried being nice i had a friend who would do this for years but after a while it just gets fucking annoying. i dropped her so i wouldn’t start agreeing with her cuz i was at the point where id just be like damn bro that sucks and change the subject

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Anonymous OP 1d

tbh if you were sorry, you’d do more research on the psychology of eating disorders and body dysmorphia so you could broaden your horizons and stop having such a strong opinion on something you don’t know much about besides anecdotal evidence and personal feelings… but you probably won’t do that. ask everyone you’re ever friends with if they have or have had an ED so you can drop them too and save them the trouble ffs. or, even better, talk to them about how you feel and maybe they’ll drop you..

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Anonymous #2 1d

i’ve dealt with ed’s in my life babe and i’m not falling for it. i did the exact same shit and i did it cuz i wanted to hear that im skinny. now that im better i dont fucking fall for that bullshit. i’m not going to play into it. i’m not going to make them worse. also what about those who are recovered hearing it? do you have any idea how triggering that can be seeing someone skinnier than you say they’re fat when you’ve worked so hard to stop thinking like that? it’s not all about them.

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Anonymous OP 22h

Facts

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Anonymous OP 22h

Fuck skinny bitches

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Anonymous OP 21h

… your experience is not a universal one. just because you did it for attention and validation doesn’t mean it’s the same for everyone. like damn holy solipsistic, batman. and yes, you WILL make it worse if you validate their body dysmorphia as you suggested… 😐 you’re allowed to be triggered by it. you’re not allowed to scold someone and make it worse just bc you’re triggered… be an adult about it ffs. 🤦🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous #2 21h

okay and be an adult and don’t call yourself fat around anyone no matter what’s going on like use ur fucking brain it’s not all about them and i’m not going to coddle them. there is nothing beneficial for anyone about complaining about being fat when ur not. u look like a bitch even if u have an ed. i’m not gonna go around assuming everyone just has an ed too some people are naturally skinny and do that shit. most you’ll get from me is an “okay buddy” if it’s a first offense.im not playing games

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Anonymous OP 21h

like go project somewhere else and stop calling urself fat around people bigger than u 🙄 nobody likes u for that

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Anonymous OP 21h

you’re clearly talking about a “friend” and you clearly fucking hate their guts 🫤 so my suggestion is to just never be friends with anyone who has any body image issues because you clearly cannot handle yourself around them. if you cannot go around with the benefit of the doubt for all people, especially those opening up about their body image, then you are a pessimistic solipsistic sad little person…

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Anonymous OP 21h

typically, if a stranger comes up to you and just starts opening up about their body image then yes it makes sense to react with less care or concern bc this is someone you don’t know and don’t interact with enough to care about their wellbeing…

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Anonymous #2 21h

lmao i’m talking about anyone i purposefully do not stay friends with bitches like that! it’s annoying and stupid and never cool or acceptable :)

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Anonymous OP 21h

so I recommend a YA book titled “Perfect” by Natasha Friend so maybe you can get another perspective of life with an ED… read her other novels while you’re at it. i related to both “Perfect” and another one titled “Lush” tbh.

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Anonymous #2 21h

i’ve read it multiple times! still won’t change my mind. <3

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Anonymous #5 14h

like body positivity was the worst thing to happen to society we need to bring back bullying fat bitches

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Anonymous #5 14h

lol ur mad my boobs bounce and my ass jiggles when i walk <3

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Anonymous OP 14h

not mad abt that stomach hanging out or arms jiggling with em lmaoooo

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Anonymous OP 14h

not like u can walk far without getting winded or having chafing anyways 🤭

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Anonymous #5 14h

LMAOOOOO babe i work out girl my body is healthy and muscular 🤯 i went down the gym route in my recovery. it’s all muscle over here now babe. my tits are beautifully natural 🥰

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Anonymous OP 14h

ok long John’s

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Anonymous #5 14h

hope you recover someday!

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Anonymous OP 14h

hope u relapse

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Anonymous #5 14h

don’t count on it! i’m having thai food tonight! food is fuel <3

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Anonymous OP 14h

good fatspo ngl

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Anonymous #5 13h

if u wanna think of a normal dinner that way be my guest but i truly do hope you recover and love yourself someday. have a good night!

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Anonymous OP 13h

purge

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Anonymous #5 13h

idk what ur tryna do lol like i said im recovered babe. ur no better than what u think of me for my opinions when u do shit like this. get a life. have a good night.

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Anonymous OP 13h

recovered enough lmao

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Anonymous #5 13h

<3

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Anonymous #5 12h

i can’t prove it but i know this is a man

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Anonymous #2 12h

i was at one point when i thought i was trans but i detransitioned so you would’ve been right a few years ago lmao

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