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why is it that every time i think i made a new friend they end up hating me? i literally cannot comprehend what i’m doing to these people, but it makes me scared to form new friendships bc what if it happens again 😀
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Anonymous 1w

Do these people tend to lack self awareness? Because if so they might just be projecting on you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

the most recent friend breakup was definitely a lack of self awareness and an inability to take accountability on their part, but i still can’t help but be scared that i’m the problem.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I get that. I’ve had those issues with past friendships as well. I try my best to be self aware and take responsibility for the role I play in certain situations but it can only go so far when there’s a lack of communication. I think as long as you’re willing to do those things you’re not the problem. People just need to learn to speak up when there’s an issue. That’s honestly something I struggle with too tbh because I’ve had experiences with those types of people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

yeah i believe that i’m a very self aware person and i can typically know what i’ve done right or wrong, but it just keeps feeling like i can’t do anything right in their eyes but i can’t think of what i could have done that was wrong. and it seems to keep happening so maybe just bad luck with who i choose as friends?

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