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have you ever had a friend who is only considerate/inclusive when you’re with them? it’s like their object permanence hasn’t developed yet she’s the sweetest most inclusive person when we hang out but if we don’t run into each other i’m never invited
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Anonymous 2d

Sometimes I can be this way because I genuinely assume people don’t wanna hang out with me unless I’m seeing them in person and can clearly tell they want to 😭

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Anonymous 2d

Ngl ur probably just not very close

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Anonymous 2d

Yea safe to say I don’t hardly see them anymore bc while I get they live together they’d always go out to eat together without me and I’d only ever get to go over to their place and that’s bc I’d drive to them to see them every weekend. I’d ask them to finish a show we watched together I’d go over to watch it they’d watch something else I stopped bothering with them tbh.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

okay thank you that could be it, especially since my workload increased a lot this semester maybe she’s assuming i’m more busy with that stuff than i am, i’ll talk to her about that thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

ugh it could be that too, we been friends since freshmen year (2 years) but this is the first year we’re living apart since she’s an RA, it just sucks because we’ve gone out like 3 times together this semester and we used to go out together at least once a week

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