Girl Talk on Sidechat | this is the second negative test i’ve taken and my boyfriend is still panicking & telling me i should take two more in the morning. we used a condom but it broke but i’m on opill & he insisted i take plan b as well (never again i felt like shit)

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Girl Talk 1d

this is the second negative test i’ve taken and my boyfriend is still panicking & telling me i should take two more in the morning. we used a condom but it broke but i’m on opill & he insisted i take plan b as well (never again i felt like shit)

10 upvotes, 16 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "this is the second negative test i’ve taken and my boyfriend is still panicking & telling me i should take two more in the morning. we used a condom but it broke but i’m on opill & he insisted i take plan b as well (never again i felt like shit)"

Anonymous 1d

girlie i think you'll be okay

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Anonymous 23h

You’ll be okay. Plan B was unnecessary since you still had Opill protecting you. Any time you’re pregnant enough to have symptoms from it, you’re pregnant enough to turn a test positive. A negative test means your symptoms are unrelated to pregnancy. A negative is definitive 21 days after sex, meaning it will not turn positive after that. Take one final test on Wednesday and you’re clear. Also, this man sounds like garbage. This is not how a man worth keeping around acts in a pregnancy scare.

Anonymous 1d

mind you this is 18 days after we had sex. i have irregular periods anyway (i skip months often) so it’s hard to pinpoint when ovulation would’ve occurred. but please tell me i’m not insane for thinking i’m genuinely not pregnant? he keeps saying all the symptoms i’m having are pregnancy symptoms but literally everything can be attributed to something else and my birth control😭

Anonymous 1d

Seeing the face in the reflection. Now ik who this is

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Anonymous 1d

lol imagine being so scared of children

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Anonymous

OP 1d

more acne, appetite changes, nausea, etc it’s nothing screaming pregnancy i get where he’s coming from bc i’m 18 and he’s 19 and we’ve only been together for a month and a half but at the same time he’s been so snappy with me and i’ve tried to talk to him about it like “hey yk this kinda makes me feel like you’re subconsciously blaming me for this just bc of the way you’re acting” and he got super defensive like “i’m sorry i’m stressed i want to be left alone you gotta understand my-

Anonymous

OP 1d

perspective” while i’m just like okay i literally told you i understand you’re going through a lot right now but so am i and we both chose to make this decision so can we please at least try and be kind to me while i be kind to you? idk lol

Anonymous

#2 1d

i also think i’ll be okay but my man is stressing me out tbh 🥲 this is all he’s been able to talk about for the past week and it’s genuinely stressing me out sm. i told him that we’d be fine and he got so upset at me (which is so unlike him) i was stunned

Anonymous

OP 1d

Tell him to grow a pair

Anonymous

OP 1d

yeah well girl this is a sign to break it off fr. because what tf would he do if you did accidentally get pregnant and needed support... like he's doing the opposite rn....

Anonymous

OP 1d

Please break up with him that’s not how a partner should respond to a situation like this

Anonymous

#1 1d

girl stfu . not everybody is willing or wanting to be a mother

Anonymous

#4 1d

Don’t have sex then

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Anonymous

birthcontrolfairy 23h

You DID take Plan B (1.5mg levonorgestrel) and not EllaOne, right?

Anonymous

birthcontrolfairy 20h

yes!

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Anonymous

OP 20h

Good! That’s just a mega dose of your pills. EllaOne is a different emergency contraceptive that is absolutely clutch in some situations, but unfortunately cancels out birth control and vise versa. A lot of people don’t realize, so I like to check. You’ll be just fine!