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Hear me out: Male loneliness is a semi scam. If men are lonely they need to learn how to form real friendships and root for their fellow man. Not blame women and then when we are nice to them, it quickly becomes a sexual encounter…
286 upvotes, 34 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Girl Talk. "Hear me out:

Male loneliness is a semi scam. If men are lonely they need to learn how to form real friendships and root for their fellow man.

Not blame women and then when we are nice to them, it quickly becomes a sexual encounter…"
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Anonymous 40w

the male loneliness epidemic matters so much to men... but not enough for them to treat women right.

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Anonymous 40w

they have a crazy victim mindset

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Anonymous 40w

ALSO it’s not just the “make loneliness epidemic,” we have a loneliness crisis in our country post COVID, but for some reason it only matters when the men are lonely.

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Anonymous 40w

I don’t think male loneliness is a scam, it’s a legit issue but they’re just blaming the wrong people/things. They’re using it to fuel sexism instead of fueling the fight against patriarchy, which harms them just as easily. The male suicide rates, the inability to confide in each other on a deeper level, the amount of male DV/SA victims that are unheard/ridiculed. Those are what we need to look at, those are the things that cause male loneliness, not women’s existences.

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Anonymous 40w

but it's "pick better men" whenever we complain 😂

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Anonymous 40w

I don’t think it’s a scam. I think some are lonely and use it as excuse for their behavior, some men genuinely weren’t taught how to reach out when they need help. I think mental health awareness should be for everyone, because even children can have mental health issues as well.

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Anonymous 40w

I didn’t read all of this but I feel like they’ve gotten so lazy. Like get your ass up, stop sending strangers dick pics, talk to a woman, get her flowers, etc.

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Anonymous 40w

and guess what the main cause of the male loneliness epidemic 📢 MISOGYNY misogyny does not harm just women it harms everyone

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Anonymous 40w

“I know I said we’re friends but you’re not reciprocating my feelings for you so I think I need to ghost you because I just can’t stand interacting with you when you are no longer of any use to me”

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Anonymous 40w

What if all the men suddenly unalived themselves? Wouldn’t that be amazing?

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Anonymous 40w

have you ever considered that perhaps the guys who are opening doors are just ugly?

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 40w

so many men are just now realizing they're not the better men 🙊

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 40w

Just look at how men operate though. You’ll never convince men as a whole not to think with sexual motives first. If you really want to fix this issue, you have to teach young boys to care about each other and not worry about what women are doing. The patriarchy won’t like that though. It’s also crazy how many women find ridiculing male victims / even false accusing men is totally ok because “men can’t be victims” At the end of the day this is a male problem though and men need to solve it…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 40w

Crying “mommy please help me” in order to use a woman’s feelings for sexual gain both hurts other men and women as well but sadly that’s what many men are using “male loneliness” as. This post calls out that behavior which id say targets a majority of frustrated males.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 40w

No I understand your point, I’m just saying I don’t think it’s a fake thing. As I said, they’re blaming the wrong things which is what you’re saying too.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 40w

I think it depends on who’s saying it. From the loudest voices, it is absolutely a scam. We forget that women will genuinely connect with a guy who is mature, has self control and doesnt jump into sex on day one. Guys who are genuinely lonely aren’t shouting “male loneliness,” they are walking up to girls and other guys respectfully and having good conversations…

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 40w

that gif gives ur gender away so quick i hope u know. sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 40w

Your bad grammar gives your gender away, male coded

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 40w

sir this is yikyak

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 40w

I’m not a sir, mister

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 40w

then why are you hating like a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 40w

You thinking this was meant as hate tells me everything I need to know about your gender

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 40w

i’m literally a woman and you can read every other comment i’ve made on this post if you’re still curious about that. but how is you saying men should k*ll themselves … not hateful😭 your post deadass sounded like a spiteful man trying to bait us

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 40w

It’s called a JOKE omg. You triggered much, man? Maybe you need to go back to For the Boys

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 40w

it was a bad joke that sounded like something a bitter incel would say based on all the other bitter incels that have already been on this post and deleted their comments. but ok so ur a woman. why are u so pressed

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 40w

“I’m literally a woman” is the most man sounding thing- gtfo out of here

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 40w

and btw that gif is literally just a bunch of racist stereotypes so you can see why i’d be hesitant here

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 40w

are you serious… read every other comment i’ve made on this post and tell me if you still think i’m a man😭😭 get a grip

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 40w

Do you not know the Simpsons? Omg you’re so triggered!

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 40w

yeah the simpsons that make racist jokes frequently….

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 40w

Then that’s not “male loneliness epidemic” that’s “lack of therapy epidemic”

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 40w

Baby I’m not the one who posted the male loneliness epidemic lol. I’m just saying it’s not a scam haha.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 40w

lol i love when ppl don't get that they don't make sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 40w

I don’t hate women but none of them like me.

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