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Girl Talk 6w
This may be fucked up to say, but I hate when men spend money on me, only when they’re also spending money on themselves. Like if I tell a guy I’m kinda seeing I’m hungry, and then instead of him just doordashing something to me, he tries take me out.
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Anonymous 6w

I’m gonna be honest yeah it’s wild to want that from a guy you’re “kinda seeing” 😭

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Anonymous 6w

I hate when men spend money on me in general ..but it sounds like he just wants to spend time with you😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

I get it, and I want to spend time with them at times, but sometimes I want a man that’ll know I just wanna be by myself and still wanna make sure I have food

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

That’s understandable. Sometimes you just gotta tell them. I feel like once you start to do that, he’ll be able to pick up on that need better

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Wym?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I dont think it’s really reasonable to expect or want money to be spent on you in that manner with someone you’re not even officially dating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

We’re dating but it’s just not a relationship rn. T think I’m not expecting too much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Well good luck with that I guess. If you can find a guy willing to do that then damn good job

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