
if my soon to be husband wants to wear sneakers to our wedding not only will i wear a non white dress but it won’t even be a wedding dress, then at the moment we say i do i’ll say i don’t and then explain that he had to fight with me to wear SNEAKERS instead of just grabbing a diff pair of ahoes
it might not be a big deal to some people but to me it’s abt respect, i’d tell him i don’t want him to wear sneakers and if he chooses to disregard my wishes on one of the biggest days of our lives then he really isn’t the kind of man i want to marry, he will probably js fight with me on everything when he doesn’t get his way and do it anyways, it’s not abt the sneakers, it’s abt respect
Like dude it’s one day, and probably the most photographed day of your life. Is that seriously want you want to see in every picture for the rest of your lives together? It just takes your entire attention away from all the other beautiful features like the venue, dress, nice suits, etc.
Right. I’m in the middle of wedding planning myself actually and although it is *our* wedding so we are both equally planning and making decisions, we’re still checking each other on things we absolutely will not be okay with. Every tiny detail brings it all together. And personally, if I wanted something informal that would work with sneakers, I wouldn’t be spending all the money on a big, nice wedding in the first place