Anonymous OP 3d

Also like I feel like the fact I still on occasion talk about my ex every once in awhile is telling that I’m not entirely over it and ready for another relationship if that makes sense, also I’m so busy idk if I’m able to like balance a relationship + school 🫩 I literally just want that man so bad

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Anonymous noisytracksuitgirl 3d

For me I do think it’s time to meet other people but like, more to make friends and meet new people in general (toxic relationship, I have 2 friends currently who live no where near me, they’re my best friends but I am not their best friend LOL). But yeah no I’ve been trying to focus on myself and I have been, I’ve met & hung out w 2 other guys already that went no where. I am definitely ready to move on just not into something super serious again, which I just need to communicate

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Anonymous OP 3d

The thing is is like this guy I think I WOULD want something serious with him so like thatssss why i have not reached out, I don’t want to mess it up if I am not ready ultimately

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Anonymous noisytracksuitgirl 3d

^^^ she’s right. a month into being single, i wanted to be a gf again at any cost. four months now, and im settling into it and being wise about who i flirt with. men are surprisingly easy to rizz up, and i accidentally led on two different guys just trying to flirt aimlessly and now i feel like a dick bc i rejected them both when they asked me out :( a little rebound is fine, but be smart about it and take time to be single before jumping into another relationship. i get it tho. i really do

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Anonymous #2 3d

You are soo real for this. I am 100% coming back to this post if/when I go for him , it cannot be anytime soon unfortunately it just sucks bc like ugh I do want someone but like I actually want him which is crazy like why are you on my mind 2 years later bro

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Anonymous OP 3d

i love you, i get it, and you need more time. you WILL crash and burn a good thing with him if you try to jump in too soon. liked this guy, wanted to date him super bad, as soon as he asked me out i panicked, realized i wasn’t ready, and had to totally cut him off. if id just waited a couple more months, maybe things would’ve been fine

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Anonymous OP 3d

rebounding is a bitch. it had me texting men id ghosted two, three years ago. and ykw. it did help me get over my last relationship and feel better about myself, but i do NOT talk to those guys anymore. cost/benefit analysis. i would’ve been better off love bombing a random guy on bumble or something instead of tweaking out with guys i’ve known for years 😭 like that sounds bad but agh! it’s fun for three weeks and then it either a.) goes bad and you feel bad or b.) goes good and you panic :/

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Anonymous OP 3d

Then go for it 😊 I’m sorry I’m just trying to help as much as I can 😭 I guess my opinion doesn’t mean much because I’ve never been in a relationship 💔

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