It was never hard making friends when I was younger but I think it’s bc I masked really well but now that im an adult it’s so hard

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Literallyyyyy and im not even diagnosed but i can see the way they be looking at me when i even say anything

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Ouchhhh this hit home so hard ☹️☹️ trust me you will find your people... theres always someone for you out there!

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i’m not autistic but i do have adhd and social anxiety and i constantly feel like this💔. why is trying to meet new people so hard🫩

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I hate this chud life

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I thought my appearance was the problem but now I’m hot with no social skills

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I Feel like such a groupy asking all the time and I cut off a bunch of friends because they always were busy bruh.

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I have AuDHD and I’m the last person to be paired for labs. I think people care… I hope people care… I don’t know anymore

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no because I look stupid and they all hang out and have parties and go places and try thing and if i’m there they don’t even talk to me. It feels like not being human

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felt on spiritual level 🫩

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I was just about to post this 😭

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I have no friends because I am hyper aware of everything around me constantly. I say something and you look at someone else before responding? I saw that. Staring at me? I see. Whispering? I hear. I also have adhd so when someone doesn’t have the same energy as me, I have a really hard time believing they want to be friends with me. If they don’t have the same enthusiasm as me, I feel like they are just talking to me to be nice and actually hate me.

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i never want to ask these so i always make sure to include whoever’s around. i hope you meet the bestest friends soon who do the same 🤍

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I’m a guy with AuDHD and this is soooo fucking relatable dude (ik i shouldn’t be in here lol)

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fawk i hate it so much and i just want to be friends with girls like me too who like shopping and taking pics but they never choose me first

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I stay in my dorm room for this exact reason. Everyone has friends alr except me🫩

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im really grateful i found friends who are patient and don’t judge and actually want to be around me im manifesting that for everyone ✨🩷

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I need friends

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No fr. I’m so burned out, I can’t mask anymore. Like, guys, I promise I’m not mad at you. I just can’t force my face and voice to match what I feel right now, that’s all!

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like i just want to feel included 😔

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That’s so real

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#relate🫩✌️

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Literally like can we js be friends atp

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The amount of times I've already seen in front of my eyes a group chat I'm not in at UVM 😃😃😃

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😂I have adhd but real

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real shit

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"lmk if ur going!" and i never get a text lmao

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I suspect I’m autistic but I’m paranoid about hospitals so I’m not gonna look into it

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Like fr. It is so hard if people think you have it when you don’t.

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Fr. It’s WAY easier to be friends with boys ngl. And they’re not as dramatic as we can be.

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how it feels here as a neurotypical 😭

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Can i join the pity party?

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When girl talk hits me with some real shit but im a guy so i get executed upon comment

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