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Help! I’m currently talking to this guy R. He’s expressed to me that he believes in God but hates church, etc. I know people can change but this is a must for me. In high school I talked to K. He just reached out and told me to watch a Christian show
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Anonymous 4w

i mean he’s allowed to hate church. there are people that are religious but don’t go to church anymore.

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Anonymous 4w

it’s not worth it to stay with someone hoping they will change. R may never change and you just need to let him be that way. stick with someone who shares your values. it might feel like a waste to give up on R, but it would be more of a waste to continue that relationship that won’t work

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Anonymous 4w

Which used to be our thing. To talk about the Bible and church and he put me on the chosen. He’s sent me devotionals. It seems like a waste to jump back to K when R and I have done well. But K has a good relationship with God. Where as R doesn’t know where he stands

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