
It’s definitely intimidating but what helped me was just remembering it’s just their job and they won’t ever judge you. Also they’ll talk you through it and make you comfortable as best as they can. Also you’ll have a sheet or something like that over your legs so you can’t even see them working down there. Just lie back and scroll on your phone or something else to try and take your mind off the stress
although my friend who has had the Pap smear before said it’s really not that bad, just be up front that you’re anxious and they can adjust as needed. She said she really didn’t have any pain other than discomfort and the clicking of the speculum sort of threw her off but it did not hurt.