Anonymous #1 1d

They take advantage of him blindly to the point where he owns a home and they live with him. He has a bedroom in the basement. Next month they’re renting the basement and his gonna be in the living room, he owns the house btw. His parents want him to give the basement rent money to them for his sisters wedding.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Today his coming over, they are finishing the basement but they got a cheap contractor who doesn’t come sometimes, I understand cuz my living room same situation and it took 2 years to renovate it. But the contractor is supposed to come tmr and his dad is yelling at him as to why he is going out. Sir the man is 24 years old stop it, u, his father, can make sure the contractor is working

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Anonymous OP 1d

I’m gonna go long distance in 1.5 weeks and getting my period soon if it hasn’t already started

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Anonymous OP 1d

Furthermore, his mom has a drivers license and doesn’t drive anywhere, she makes his son take care of her more than her husband it’s annoying. My bf doesn’t have personal space, everyone thinks they can come and go out of his space any time and talk to him any time. Not to mention I also hate his siblings his sister- a bitch and his brother ooof he was almost kicked out of the house last month cuz his an idiot

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Anonymous OP 1d

Oh and the cherry on top, so when my bf started work after college he was forced to give his whole paycheck to his fam, that’s how things are done in our culture, but my bf was like imma give a big percentage. It was supposed to be for his sisters wedding, but they bought a new house. He gave his parents 80k and his parents are claiming that they gave him 80k for the downpayment on the house. He pays the mortgage, he literally made the 80k

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Anonymous OP 1d

Oh…

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Anonymous #2 1d

There is so much more bs but yk I don’t wanna say it cuz it would be endless replies. I keep remembering I love my bf but hate his fam even though I’ve never met them

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Anonymous #3 1d

So we’ve been dating for 3 years, he didn’t see it in the beginning but now he sees it. His siblings his done with, his parents he respects because he was born with a 1 and a million illnesses and they took care of him with low means, he is forever grateful for that. Now his also interested in money like fascinated on making more, hence y the basement thing, because he wants to pay this current house off and buy another within the next 4 years and that impossible without renting the basement.

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Anonymous OP 1d

His sister is hopefully getting married in November (I don’t think so, it’s really ambitious, but I wish her luck). She has options, it’s arrangedish but she’s picking the stupid option my bf and I both think that. But if and when she gets married her room will be my bfs. Then 4 years and he will buy a new bigger home. I’m just also pissed cuz his former home they still own it under his dad’s name but my bf also paid that mortgage since he graduated college and his fam is ungrateful. Now they

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Anonymous OP 1d

Rent the place and it pays for itself

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Anonymous OP 1d

My bf is slowly realizing everything like he doesn’t like his dad, but deals with him. I have said many times that when we get married we’re moving and he agrees so that’s the deal. I think these next couple of years he will slowly notice how his parents are like this and take advantage of him. He says his not gonna be annoyed by not having privacy in the living room but oh he is, I know him and his gonna grow sick of his fam

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