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Hey dressing up as Bear and Nikki for Halloween is not cute!
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Anonymous 1d

if you’re part of the Cornell seven maybe. fuck them. and bear too.

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Anonymous 1d

hey! it’s a fictional story & movies r ART. yes, the film covers heavy topics, but again, these aren’t real people… they’re CHARACTERS. not everything needs to be a huge deal and using Obsession to push for rape/manipulation awareness instead of shedding light on REAL victims is pretty performative.🤗

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Anonymous 1d

AT ALL !

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Anonymous 1d

Thoughts on dressing up as Nikki alone?

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Anonymous 1d

aw man🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Dressing as a rapists is weird. End of story

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

babe there’s no rapist… it’s a movie. if we were talking about dressing up as jeffrey dahmer yes okay but no. people dress up as CHARACTERS on halloweeen. end of story.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

and that character is a rapist. so.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

And mike myers is a serial killer yet ppl still dress as him, hell ppl even dress up like the devil

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

i hope i don’t have to explain to you how rape and murder are different. or how they’re viewed differently in society. but hey if you wanna dress up as a fictional rapist live your life girl, i’m sure it’ll be a big hit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Bear is a rapist he literally fucks Nikki when she's in a state where she can't consent dumbass. media literacy is dead.

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Anonymous 1d

Genuinely who tf brought up Lindsay Clancy. Why do men always want to bring up Lindsay Clancy when like ten men had also commitid familicide in the week after her case went viral

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Committed**

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Anonymous 1d

thank you for bringing up lindsey clancy for no reason so ik not to waste my time arguing with you lol

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Anonymous 1d

It's almost like rape is a Bad Thing and shouldn't be glorified in any way bc the dehumanization of and theft of control over women's bodies is a serious and dangerous problem that is very much alive and well

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Anonymous 1d

Clearly you don't grasp the extent to which people misunderstand that movie

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yes!! I feel like if it was something from true crime and an individual truly suffered as them, THEN it would be pretty fucked up to dress up as them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 23h

Dressing up as Nikki in the beginning of the movie is totally fine IMO! It’s more of couple costumes where they dress as bear and Nikki which is literally dressing up as a rapist and their victim.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Ohhh, okay, I see your point here. That makes sense, thank you❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

How do you not think Bear was a rapist???? That was the entire point behind the movie. Bear slept with Nikki after knowing that it wasn’t Nikki in control. I fear you might have missed the entire fucking point of the movie. Yikes

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 23h

Ofc ofc 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

I’m really sorry for being such a bitch earlier, I was so stuck in my way that I couldn’t see it any other. But seriously, thank you for taking the time to explain it to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

that’s not what she’s saying, she’s saying there wasn’t a rapist since it’s fictional. no one got raped, so she’s saying it’s not disrespectful to people

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 21h

I don’t agree with the sentiment since such a large (living) population has been SA’d/SH’d and wouldn’t enjoy seeing a rapist costume, fictional or otherwise… many people have been in analogous situations to Nikki, and Bear is MADE to be like many existing men 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

when did i say he wasn’t… I FEAR u misread what i said. my point is that he’s not REAL cutie okay. sooo many girls love art the clown and he’s killed children but again it’s not REAL. let’s focus on REAL rapists and REAL survivors and shed light on them instead of using all that energy on a fucking halloween costume…. get a grip 😊

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